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بررسی و مقایسه رفتارهای مثبت کلامی و غیرکلامی دختر و پسر با شریک عاطفی خود در دوران نامزدی (آشنایی)، نامزدی رسمی و پس از ازدواج

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان
Arezou Delfan Beiranvand 1
Khosro Rashid 2
Maryam Najafi Moghadam 3
1 Ph.D. student in educational psychology, Faculty of Economics and Social Sciences, Bu-Ali Sina University, Hamadan, Iran.
2 Associate professor, Department of Psychology, Faculty of Humanities and Social Sciences, University of Mazandaran, Babolsar, Iran.
3 M.Sc. of art in educational psychology, Bu-Ali Sina University, Hamadan, Iran.
10.22038/jfmh.2023.22569
چکیده
مقدمه: پژوهش حاضر به بررسی و مقایسه رفتارهای مثبت کلامی و غیرکلامی با شریک عاطفی در سه دوره نامزدی، نامزدی رسمی و پس از ازدواج پرداخته است.
روش کار: جامعه آماری این مطالعه مقطعی شامل کلیه دختران و پسران شهر همدان بود که در سال 1390 در دوران نامزدی، نامزدی رسمی و یا پس از ازدواج بوده اند. یکصد و پنجاه نفر (50 مورد در هر دوره) از طریق روش نمونه گیری طبقه ای مناسب انتخاب شدند. آنها به مقیاس رفتارهای کلامی و غیرکلامی محقق ساخته پاسخ دادند. داده ها با استفاده از آزمون t، آنالیز واریانس یک طرفه، آزمون تعقیبی LSD و نرم افزار SPSS25 مورد تجزیه و تحلیل قرار گرفت.
یافته‌ها: نتایج تحلیل واریانس یک‌طرفه نشان داد که رفتارهای کلامی مثبت (045/128 F=، 001/0 >P) و غیرکلامی (416/46 F=، 001/0 >P)  در هر سه دوره تغییر معنی‌داری داشته است. نتایج همچنین تغییرات معناداری را در رفتارهای مثبت کلامی و غیرکلامی در پسران (کلامی: 39/66F=، 001/0> P، غیر کلامی: 106/20F=، 001/0>P) و دختران
(کلامی: 88/59 F=، 001/0> P، غیر کلامی: 48/31 F=، 001/0>P) در طول دوره ها نشان داد. همچنین رفتارهای مثبت کلامی و غیرکلامی در هر دو جنس با حرکت رابطه از نامزدی به ازدواج روند نزولی را تجربه می کند. نتایج نشان داد که بین دختران و پسران از نظر رفتارهای کلامی و غیرکلامی تفاوت معناداری وجود ندارد (کلامی: 231t= ، 001/0<P، غیر کلامی:  184-t= ، 001/0P> ).
نتیجه‌گیری: با توجه به نتایج به‌نظر می‌رسد رفتارهای کلامی و غیرکلامی در دوران نامزدی مثبت‌تر است و با پیش‌رفتن رابطه به سمت ازدواج کاهش می‌یابد.
کلیدواژه‌ها
ازدواج
رابطه
رفتار کلامی
رفتار غیرکلامی
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مجله اصول بهداشت روانی
دوره 25، شماره 2
فروردین و اردیبهشت 1402
صفحه 111-121